The Cost of Discipleship
SABBATH SCHOOL INSIGHT #13
"The Cost of Discipleship"
March 29, 2014
One day, a young man named Tony went to purchase an iPad, the average cost of which was approximately $500. At completion of his transaction, Tony gained an iPad but had $500 less in his pocket. Consequently, he could not purchase other things with that $500, as it (the money was no longer his, but) was spent. You see, to gain something of value, Tony had to incur a loss; [to him, the gain of the iPad was worth the loss of the money]. If he thought the $500 was worth more than the iPad, he would have kept the money.
Every day we make decisions based on what we think is of value. So, we trade that which we think is worth losing to gain that which we value more. A spouse or parent who goes to work trades in time, skill and effort for money. With the money received, food, clothing, shelter, and other necessities are purchased. However, the time spent at work is time which cannot be given to his spouse and children. To gain money the spouse/parent loses time and to gain food and shelter, he loses money. The idea is: to gain, you must lose. And, within each choice, there are gains and losses.
The question is this: will the gain be worth the loss? Scripture says, “For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for My sake shall find it. For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?” (Matthew 16:25, 26). What is the worth, or value of a soul?
Jesus spoke many parables to teach us His Father’s values. Let us look at the parable of the Prodigal Son from the perspective of what each character stood to lose or gain. It should lead us to a closer examination of our own values. We need to see if they are in alignment with God’s values.
In the beginning of the story, the youngest son requested his inheritance so he could leave his father’s home to go out and live as he pleased. With sadness, the father obliged (Luke 15: 11 – 14). What did the youngest son hope to gain from his request? He wanted the means to enjoy freedom from the restrictions of his father. To him, this freedom was more valuable than his elder brother’s companionship, and even his father’s shelter and protection.
Sadly, the younger son was unaware of his greatest loss. He neither understood nor valued His father’s love. In contrast, the father not only lost his goods, he lost a son. To him, the latter was the greater loss. In contrast, the elder brother sustained two losses – that of his younger brother, as well as a part of his inheritance. Despite this, we discover later on in the parable that from the elder brother’s perspective, his greatest loss was not his brother, but his inheritance.
The second part of the story tells of how the younger son left his father’s home, partied, lost his means, and his dignity and found an abominable job earning very little. Repentant, he decided to return home, beg his father for forgiveness, and willingly work as his father’s employee. As far as the younger son was concerned, he thought that at least he would gain food and shelter while his father gained an employee. This simple plan however, was foiled; when the father saw the younger son on the road approaching home, he literally picked up the hem of his robe and ran to his son. Lovingly embracing him, the father promptly restored his son to his prior place in the family (Luke 15: 15-24). The Father regained his son. If there was a loss, it did not matter because the regaining of his son overshadowed it. The younger son gained more than he anticipated. He received grace, mercy, forgiveness, and reconciliation. The greatest gain was experiencing his father’s love.
In the third part of the story, the eldest son reproached the father for receiving his brother (Luke 15:25-31). In his eyes, the re-gaining of a brother meant losing more of the father’s inheritance. To the eldest son, nothing mattered more than his inheritance. It was more important than his brother. As far as he knew, he stood to gain nothing by the return of his wayward sibling. Sadly, the elder brother was unaware of his greatest loss: that of not experiencing and participating in his father’s love.
Do we know our Heavenly Father’s love? Perhaps if we understood what He lost in order to gain us, we would better understand Him. How much has the Father given for us? Our Father loved us so much that He was willing to pay far more than we were intrinsically worth. Our Father stood to lose everything to gain us.
When Adam and Eve sinned, the Father lost both this earth and His Son. Because God so loved the world, He agreed in the councils of Heaven to allow Christ to come and save them if they sinned (John 3:16); thus, the Son was slain from the foundation of the world (Revelation 13:8). The decision was made that Jesus would die eternally so we could live eternally with Him. If He succeeded in His mission then the Father would regain that which was lost.
However, if He should fail, the stakes would be higher -- all would be lost. Either way, there would be a loss. When Abraham demonstrated that he was willing to lose his son Isaac in order to gain Christ, the Lord swore by Himself that … “in thy seed shall all the nations of the earth be blessed” (cf. Genesis 22:15 – 18).
In swearing by Himself, the Lord placed Himself as a guarantor, and as surety. He placed everything on the line. If the plan failed, God would forfeit everything. By this act of love, God demonstrated that He would rather die than to live without us. The Lord places that much value in us.
How much do we value such love? If we esteem Christ, we will respond as Paul did in Philippians 3:7-10:
May we accept the principle of giving up all in order to gain the souls of others!